Personal Childhood Web

Since I come from such a large family, it was difficult deciding the people who nurtured me, cared about me, and had the most impact on my life. My grandmother was the most special person in my life. Although she passed away almost 30 years ago, I still feel her presence. Grandma represented love. She was the matriarch. Everyone sought her approval. I had a very special bond with my grandmother. She lived with my family and since, according to everyone else, I was a cry baby as an infant it was my grandmother who held me the most. As I grew I thought my grandmother was perfect and she definitely had a soft spot for me. Grandma taught the importance of love and family. I carry that lesson near and dear to my heart.

My parents taught me not to give up when things get tough. They worked through difficult situations always putting their best foot forward. My dad taught me to have an "I can do it" attitude. If I had a difficult project at school he would always say, "oh come on, you can do it". My mom taught how to multi task. She never appeared overwhelmed running a household with six children and three adults, while helping my dad run our farm business. She did it all! My mother is now the primary care giver for my dad. Their example continues to amaze me! Their ability to adapt and show love is astounding.

Aunt Sue was one of my favorites. Somewhere along the way she was labeled eccentric. She ran two businesses during her lifetime - one making clothes for a boutique and the other running a pottery class for seniors . Aunt Sue didn't learn to drive until she was in her 50's. Life wasn't manageable for her anymore without that skill - so she did it. My Aunt Sue took a special interest in me and always had time to talk with me. She taught me to follow my heart and persevere. My children think I look just like her, and I think she did too. I miss Aunt Sue. I think she would be proud that I am still following my heart.
My lifelong confidant and best friend is my cousin Debbie. I've always had such admiration for Debbie because no matter how hard life got for her she found a way to survive and prosper. Debbie took art classes her entire life. She is now a successful artist in Florida. We're sad to be separated by such a distance, but our bond never falters. We're there for each other. Debbie taught me to be resilient.